I Help Couples Improve Their Sex Life. Here Are The 4 Things I Wish More Men Knew.

HuffPost · Eric FitzMedrud · 2026-11-04 18:09 UTC

"Because I’ve made these mistakes myself, I know I want to be loving, kind and generous. Most of my clients do, too."

Imagine a new couple in their early 20s. Their relationship is fraying at the edges. She complains that if she doesn’t have sex with him, he mopes for days. If she does have sex with him, he’s happy for a few days before he begins complaining again.

He reports feeling lonely, that she’s not prioritizing their relationship, and that he’s tried everything to spark her desire, but nothing works. He has two affairs in a year. She’s devastated and betrayed.

If my wife and I had been wise (and wealthy) enough to go to couples therapy at the lowest point in our marriage, this is how a therapist might have described us.

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